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(No Holds Bar).......If ur one of those females who can't understand the difference between(now, pay special attention to the next 3 words i'm getting ready to type) D.iscussion, D.emonstration, and D.isrespect; I suggest u go back to the chatrooms...This is real ***, right here... Anyways... A crazy thing happened to me the other day. I heard a man call his Fiancee' a Bitch...Now, I'm not an unreasonable guy. I know how it is. I have a daughter with a mother i'm not married to...trust me, I know. I understand she's wrong. I understand she started it...Hell, i even understand the fact she called him every name under the sun, other than his own. I can even understand she slapped him all in his mouf, and ain't a damn thing he can do about it. Given all that, one, especially me, can somewhat sympathize with his seemingly understandable choice of words(the 1st, and the 15th time he said it). One MAY even be able to justify it...... So, what makes him wrong? He turns to me.................and calls her WIFEY!!! I was bugged the ***k out! How the hell did he even allow that to come out his face?! I pondered on that for a few days until I hit another logic-questioning brick wall. I found myself in the very same position he was in...and I ALMOST found myself in the same weakened, stereotypical mindset i had once dispised...hmmmmmm....This, in turn, spun me again, this time until i faced the real issue. Niggas don't know how to tell the difference between what's real, and what looks, smells, feels, acts, and sounds real, but is not. WIFEY, NIGGA?!?!?!? Shut da ***k up! Ur average 30 yr old man is in a situation brought upon by the illusion of wifey. i.e., Child Support...Divorce...Prison(for some that couldn't take it), etc. And why? Because he didn't look hard enough to see what type of person he was dealing with.{note: triflin' ass niggas, don't use this essay as an excuse for ur worthlessness. a worthless living man cannot pay for his own tomb} For those of u who can't differentiate, I'll gladly be of service to u. From one real nigga to another... Read VERY carefully: a nigga has 5 different types of girls... 1. Wifey 2. Boo 3. Bitches 4. Ho's 5. Queen 1)Wifey is irreplaceable.. but she is the only one that is irreplaceable.. She is the girl that Dude loves and will always loves, and he never wants to see her with another man.. But.. He will cheat on her with Boo, Bitches, and Ho's until he is mature enough to realize that if he loses Wifey he would be screwed, and NEVER be happy again.. 2) Boo is replaceable, she thinks she's Wifey, but will NEVER be Wifey because Wifey was made, Dude saw what he wanted in her, and made it HIS business to nurture her into being the woman he sees in her. Wifey is irreplaceable.. Boo can NEVER step in for her permenantly.. Predictably, she tries to take Wifey's spot. IF it's an earnest attempt, Dude MIGHT allow her to get a TASTE of Wifey's spot... then Dude goes back to Wifey.{note to the reader: Boo will NEVER achieve her spot for any longer than a few months} Boo either gets replaced with another Boo, or, the man matures and decides that Wifey is the one for him.. (Ladies.. you don't want to be BOO) 3) Bitches.. A female that a Dude uses only for sex or other sexually related events. I think 'booty call' is a more vintage term. When Wifey's acting up and you need a quick nut. The *** is the first one to come running. Alot of times, Bitches are ex-Boo's that have been demoted due to drama and/or stupidity. They settle for the lesser spot with hopes of re-earning her position using the bribe of sex...Ha!!! 4) Ho's.. enough said! Trying to move up in life, Wants to be a Bitch or a Boo. Hoes are just the girls you bag for no reason and have them in your phone. Backups incase a *** or a boo slips up. Then you replace with a hoe. AND THEN, THERE'S NUMBER 5. 5) Queen...Well, Queen is a tad simpler to explain than it seems. See, Dude puts her on the highest possible pedestal...He does for her, because it's a Queen's place is to be pampered...He tries not to ***k up TOO bad, because he knows what Queen is worth, and what a privilege it is to be her squire...He gives her her 'her time', because he understands and admires the stress and responsibility that comes with being Royalty...Despite his own thoughts and feelings, He presents hisself to her, and the world, with the utmost elegance and humility, because HER choosing HIM makes HIM a KING(try & keep up)...He minds his tongue, no matter how brutal she can be, no matter how arrogant she can be(but hey, what's a queen without an ego?), no matter how hurtful she can be, no matter how bad she deserves whatever's on his mind......He minds his tongue, because he continuously reminds himself of the respect he has gained, the character he's built, and the backbone he's grown......because of her...